Getting Cosy: With Care and Caution
Winter seems warmer with the loved person in the arms. Getting cozy with the partner has always been cherished with good memories. Well, that becomes possible only when the sexual health of both the partners are all right. Unfortunately, sexual health is often overlooked in terms of importance. Whether you are sexually active or not, it is important to maintain sexual health. The pandemic has hit us hard with various problems bugging us day and night. In these moments of stress and anxiety, a perfect stress-buster would be an intimate love-making with the partner. However, for various reasons, sexual health gets affected in different ways.
Meeting with a partner have never been so difficult before...
The fear of contracting the deadly coronavirus has become stronger than the urge of physical intimacy. The rising number of Covid-19 cases has left us thinking twice when inviting someone in our homes, let alone our beds. Before giving in to the need for sex and taking an uncalculated risk, it is easier to go solo. Masturbate!!! Surf the internet for content that gets you excited and get that much-needed release. Not only does it satisfy your urges, but also acts as a stress relief. For those unsure of what to do or what they like during sex, this is a good opportunity to explore yourselves. One could use sex toys or other devices if the need be. There are a lot of websites which offer discrete and safe delivery of these items to your door-step keeping your details a secret.
If you are committed to your partner but do not stay together, daily meetings might not be possible. Instead, you could opt for phone sex or sexting and masturbating to it. As the constraints have been relaxed on traffic, you can meet your partner and go for safe sex only after ensuring that both have not been exposed to or have not reported any symptoms of covid infection in last 14 days.
Stress versus Sex
Those lucky enough to be living with their partners would have different but just as many problems. The current scenario has taken a toll on everyone’s emotional stability. This could cause an increase in sex drive or complete loss of it. One might start having shifted desires. Something that turned them on before may be too overwhelming or just not enough for them. Adding to it, the balance of work from home and the house-hold chores which are usually delegated to a maid may be exhausting. It may result in wanting a break from some or all sexual activity. In these cases, the best thing for both you and your partner would be talking to each other. Telling your partner about any change in your desires may avoid any further complications or insecurities in a relationship.
A surprise may be the cause of unbound joy for one while the same may be the cause of sorrow and stress for others. One such surprise is the pregnancy news. The thought of having a baby is a dream for many couples. They spend a lot in the effort to have a child. Due to many health issues like obesity, hormonal problems etc. they fail to conceive. Well, nowadays a lot of fertility treatments are available and IVF is not a far-fetched dream.
But what if the extra pink line on the pregnancy test kit is a nightmare for the couple?
What if the plan to have a baby is not welcome at that moment?
Life comes with surprises at every turn of the journey. But if that is unwanted, it becomes a stressful event. Coping with an unwanted pregnancy has been a common issue since the trend of co-living has become familiar. Sometimes unprotected sex leads to successful impregnation and the couples are in thick soup.
It is important to know when and how the pregnancy test kit can be used. Girls, you must be keeping a note of your periods date. So skipping one while having an active sex life might indicate the imminent danger.
In this occasion, take a deep breath and share your concern with your partner. Both the partners should be equally taking the responsibility of the affair. Get a pregnancy test kit and check for yourself. If the two lines appear distinctly, you should consider contacting doctors. It might seem very embarrassing at the beginning but the doctor is your best friend and advisor in this case.
In an unexpected turn of events, some couples might decide to continue with the pregnancy and keep the baby, while some would want to give birth and give the baby for adoption. As all the options are available, it is up to the couple to decide which road to take. But, the most important thing is to take care of your emotional health. These events are emotionally draining and might have future consequences. The partners need to understand each other and hold onto each other while following the advice given by the doctor. Also, physical health must be taken care of as the medicines or surgery have their side effects.
Consulting an Expert
If you are experiencing a change you can’t pinpoint or find the cause of, consult an expert. We are often not very comfortable with sharing the details of bedroom activities with others but it is better to talk to someone than overthinking about it. Usually, your partner can help but in case they can’t or the lack of a partner, this would be very beneficial. Not only will an expert help you deal with your problems but also reassure that you are not the only one. At times this makes a big difference in the emotional health of a person. Consulting an expert is nothing to be ashamed of.
Ruther, it would be all about getting to know you better. It might be a little awkward in the beginning but the outcome would be your better sexual and emotional health. Always remember that
“The highest pleasure is only consciousness of freedom from the deepest pain”
Now that we have learnt a bit about it, it’s time to free yourself from the emotional imbalance due to disturbing sexual health as there will be no one to judge and none to comment.
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